Well, H has not ever done or given me anything from the kids since the separation so I guess I should stop too. That's why I didn't do anything for Easter. Thought wait, I know he is in a fog or whatever but he could have at least took D13 to get a card for me.
Last year God Bless his soul, my S19 who is mentally challenged got me an anniversary card. He didn't know any better.
I smiled and hugged him and told him THANK YOU SO MUCH! But then when he left I went upstairs and cried and cried.
Matt and Cat, thank you for your input. If H starts to give me things from the kids for birthdays etc. then I will do the same. But not until then.
Just was always trying to let him know that we all love and miss him since he is so depressed. I didn't put the words we love and miss you, just had the kids sign Love, D13 and SS19. Thought I was doing the right thing as far as my faith goes but I guess not.
