Coach I'm a total lover, not a fighter/arguer. I tend to be affectionate, attentive, and prob a bit gooey, even. He always tweaked me right before going in somewhere, just to stir the pot. I called him on it many times. I hear what you're saying re:paying attention. Who wants to pay attention to someone riling them, on purpose, though?
Anyways, no matter. He's busy ignoring his family, in his own love shack w/someone new. And, that is just plain dealbeaking for me. It won't be long now...
Always good to think many ways. Hopefully, the next person adores being adored.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.