Originally Posted By: Goodfight
This year is a little different, we aren't fighting over the phone or anything on a daily basis.....


Nope…no different.

Originally Posted By: Goodfight
So, I don't know what to do either. Looks like we are all in a pickle here. What do we do?


Why ask what to do when the answers have already been given?

See Mach1’s post above, as well as mine…

Listen, tomorrow is my birthday, my anniversary is on May 4th, and then Mother’s Day is the 9th….

Guess what I will be doing…

Enjoying getting another year older, going to the beach and a karate tournament, going out to dinner with my S and just living my life…

If H says anything about any of it, that is his choice…

And I will smile and say Thankyou…

But I won’t be wallowing in any sort of pity party for what was or what could have been…


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox