I didn't acknowledge last years anniversary with H. He has been gone since 11/08. I dreaded the day coming and didn't know how I was going to get through it. But I did survive.
This year is a little different, we aren't fighting over the phone or anything on a daily basis.....really no contact since the Wed. after Easter when he had D13 give me the leftover pizza from when they went out and told her to give it to me and tell me Happy Easter. WTH???? I think D13 asked if she should tell me Happy Easter.
Well, Easter was the first holiday I didn't text H and tell him to enjoy his holiday.
I usually text first and then he responds "thanks you too" I have bought gifts for his birthday and Christmas from the kids but not once did he do anything for me since the separation.
Sorry for going on and on. But I was also wondering what to do since our Anniversary is on the 9th and it is also Mothers Day. This is going to be a rough on with it falling on Mothers Day. His Mom and step-dad also have the same anniversary. It was her idea to pick our date of M. So I know he won't be able just to blow it off, or maybe he will just concentrate on it being his Mothers and Step-Fathers Day. This will be the first for H to celebrate these days with his Mother in a long time since he didn't speak to her for over 12yrs.
He isn't taking D13 this Sat. cause he said they (mother, and rest of his family) are going out to celebrate his mother's birthday. And won't see her next weekend cause he will tell her she needs to be with me because it is Mothers Day.
So, I don't know what to do either. Looks like we are all in a pickle here. What do we do?
