My H's biggest complaint about me was my need to make friends everywhere. Maybe he should have been enough of one! Huh? (Sorry, that was mean.).
Hey Mind, I've been thinking about that comment all day. What kind of tool doesn't want his partner to be outgoing? Was he jealous that you stole his spotlight? Was he more comfortable being a wallflower? Not paying enough attention to him?
Expound please?
--Fergie
Why would someone feel left out if their partner was more interested in other people than him? It's about how they view the situation. I am by no means excusing Mr MF (pun intended) but you have to be able to see things from new perspectives. If his LL was QT then he sure would feel slighted. It also doesn't mean Mindfull changes who she is to accomodate a spouse just be aware of what the wants of your sig other are.
Solution: If something is bothering you then it is your responsiblity to bring it up.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
