Well, I did it. I reverted back to my old bitchy self. I have been so good for so long- bitchy me made a rare appearance and my old familar hubby was back- stonewalling, spinning, trying to turn it back on me. And somewhere in the mist of this- I realized what a complete @ss I am being. As if this has ever worked. Direct confrontation with an attitude. He was upset, I was upset. But he still is a changed man. The old hubby would have stormed off to the bedroom and stewed for days. He waited up for me so we could have our time. Unfortunately, my youngest fought sleep till 11pm so no fun time for us. In the past I would have continued too hard on him and even throw out some putdowns. Instead the new me apologized and gave him a big hug and guess what- he huged back really hard.
WOW! This is exactly to a T what happened with my (x)W last night.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
