How are you? As True said...learn from this pain. Realize the where you may have contributed to your sitch - take the time to figure out what you really want to do. Stop...wait...heal and then GET UP! That's right - GET UP. Tha's right get up out of the pity party that we all fall into. I actually lived there for a while and what I can tell you is that nothing good will come from the pity party.
You've said you want to enjoy these last few months together...If that is what you want then IMO you will need to find some happiness that you can share with your H. Show him what he is going to miss. Don't let the feelings of despair overtake you. You can control YOUR feelings - it take work but it can be done!
I appreciate the thanks - I really do. May I ask for something? May I? We'll here goes...if you want to thank me then do the following:
DETACH, HEAL, GRIEVE and then GO ENJOY your life. Live it to fullest. Post that you are growing and learning about yourself. Post that you have begun to see the light at the end of the tunnell. That my dear is the thanks that many of us I believe look forward to.
We are here for you. You are not alone and YOU WILL MAKE IT.
Remember...faith and hope are not based on anything that you see, hear or feel!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
