No it isn't a surprise, and that is why I am upset with myself as well as with him. As I recall now it took him a couple of attempts before he could tell Nathan the first time, when he moved to Iowa, that he was not going to live with us when we moved to Iowa too.
I am just disgusted with him today. That he is such a coward, and that he would continue to manipulate and deflect and lie...I really want to rip him a new one but I am not contacting him......
