I am already pretty angry at myself that I let him manipulate me again. I was genuinely worried for the kids well being if he was having a breakdown in the local restaurant...when I got to his house and the kids seemed fine I was so pissed...
I didn't want to tell them at nine o'clock as it was already past time to go to bed. So yes I chose to put it off at that point but I felt backed into a corner...and I am still frustrated with both of us today...
He said last night in the text rampage that he had to get out of town. I don't know if he meant for a few days or permanently as in a move, but I sure as hell know my kids are not leaving town...they are staying with me...