I got a list of MC and am going to approach her after she gets back from a gradustion party on her familys side in another state. She gets back Saturday, I will ask her about it on Sunday night. I hope this helps her get through some of her problems. I have really gotten through a lot of mine in IC. Only time will tell. I am just nervous that this will backfire and make things worse. I guess that is a theme for me. Which I guess points out another 180. Stop settling for the status quo because things are OK. Especially since it may not be.