Dazed and Confused...Need Advice!!!!

[SMM23]

Making yourself the hottest man she can get doesn't mean she's going to get you ... she has to come to you. Getting near enough to make her hot for you and reach out to you is great, I think, but you need watch for signs. If she seems flooded/overwhelmed, back off and keep working on yourself.

I am already committed to making myself better. I know that if she leaves today I would have to find a very special person to want to date an overweight person. So with or without her I need to be thin. Besides, that is what I want for me, I HATE being overweight.

Always keep making yourself the man you want to have been. She won't believe your changes are permanent until they've lasted for a while, so don't lose hope/prayer.

I know, patience I am still working on

Tips for losing weight found on Mens' Health:
- exercise before eating for at least 2 min. Revs up the metabolism
- exercise for at least 2 min when you wake up
- try to lift a couple weights at home every few days for a few minutes at least (20-40lbs?)

Great tips. I have already started working on some of these. I got a little reved up and tried to do too much which hurt my knee which has slowed me down, but I am not going to quit!!!

RE intimacy, who knows. I think back to the comment about other men. Why would she tell you that all horny like unless she was hinting at what she wants you to become more like. It could also be MLC or who knows, so be patient.

I am still leaning toward a MLC. She wants to be free to do things and have no responabilities. She wants a motorcycle and never has before. Just wants different things all of a sudden. Or she always wanted these things and repressed her feeligns like she did with so many other things. I even saw on her Facebook one time that she said she was a single woman in a married persons body. I did not take that well. She changed the page but not her feelings.