I am so angry with him right now that it's hard to force myself to be a bigger person and not go crazy. I want to turn off his credit cards, cancel his phone, etc. but then I know that if we do D this will not reflect well on me in terms of negotiations. Nor is it the right thing to do. Turn the other cheek, right?
That depends. If it's just to protect our own FEELINGS, then yes, we are taught to turn the other cheek. But if it's to protect our ASSETS, or our FAMILY, then there's nothing wrong with doing what needs to be done. The Bible also teaches us "there is wisdom in many counselors," and warns against co-signing for others' debts.
Who pays for your husband's cellphone? Is he using family assets (credit cards) on another woman?
