SA,
has there been a precedent set - has there been a birthday that he didn't remember post bomb??

My husband left on our 14th Wedding Anniversary so I can't imagine for one minute I'll be sending him a card to celebrate our 15th!! Christmas was a hidous card which could have been bought by a 12 year old and not my type of card at all and he sent me a text for my birthday in March (and didn't organise anything with the kids for me. Unless anything changes I'll not be acknowledging his birthday or our anniversary.

So, in answer to your question - he may well be thinking of you and your anniversary but he mighten wnat to acknowlegde it because he fears any repercussions - don't have any expectation from him and have a card at the ready in case he surprises you.

If he doesn't surprise you then maybe think about popping it away in a box to show your husband when/if his MLC fog lifts
and the time is right.

lalxx


Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011