Hey, I had a problem with not wanting sex but mine had to do with resentment issues. My H went from doing the whole foreplay, eroticism stuff to shooting the gun right at the target... that made me lose even more interest.
I would start by taking some of the other's suggestions. That is a great start. rubbing, kissing, holding, fondling. do things for her sexually, KWIM? get her hot and bothered.
I hope it works for you!
I will try that. There was a time that we got to the point that we had no foreplay and just like you described. She did tell me once that she was not ready and that she did not enjoy it because of that. Maybe some resentment came in to play. So how do I turn that around now? I kind of started last night with more flirting and just touching her on the way by and things like that. I will work up to the body rub. I am going to go get a book on massage and see if something there helps as well as the Sex Starved book.
