This is your life, and you need to handle your situation in the way you think is best.

Just keep in mind that by saying you want to "re-evaluate in late July", you're basically giving him permission to treat you this way until then.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."