While I realize that the anniversary still means something to you, on the surface it doesn’t mean too much to our MLCer’s.
I know many people just buy cards for the occasion and keep them so if reconciliation happens, they have them to give.
If you are going to do anything, make it very simple, kind, non pressuring (although any reminder will be pressuring), and make sure you have no expectations of anything in return.
((((hugs))))
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox