Working on a NEW marriage

[Surviving03]

I have decided to move from Newcomers to here... I know the threads here are not as busy, but I figured I would give it a shot.

Here is my Original Story
And below in my signature is my current Newcomers Thread.

My H and I are currently working on reconciliation, its only been a week and half so far. So far so good.... H basically maintained his D position for 2 months straight and then just as it was almost time for me to leave (currently live overseas on a military base in Turkey, paperwork had been put in for me to go home to the States due to this situation) just as the paperwork was one signature away from being complete, and I had started to completely detach, H suddenly turned around a full 180 and was ready to do whatever needed to stay together.

Needless to say, I was shocked, it came at a time where I least expected it. And I was very very hesitant at first, the first few days I struggled trying to decide if I even wanted the M anymore myself. I decided to take it a day at a time and see how H acted and see if I really saw some signs of hope for a new and improved and happier M for both of us.... although it has been a short period of time since the "turn around" I feel more and more secure in the decision to work things out with my H every day. He is doing a wonderful job making me feel like he is genuine.

I want to stick to these board though because this is a journey and mine is far from over. I dont want to find myself in the midst of another bomb and I want to stick to my changes that I am making for myself and for the M. I hope this forum can start seeing some more action from other people in the piecing stage....