For whta it is worth we di not say who left who to D9 and in my opinion that is the way to go. Why should you make your kid's hate your dad??? kid's are perceptive...D9 surprises me every day. Don't use your kids as revenge BBJ. What would you really gain if your little ones blame their dad fro the rest of their young lives for a breakup that they had nothing to do with.
BY THE WAY AN OLD BUDDY USED TO SAY DAN IS BROKEN,,,,HES WAS SOOOOO RIGHT