OMG, I log on, worried about what happened last night and what do I read? DAN being his USUAL self and Bbj going along once more.
Sis, 4x4 here: you are STILL wishing something would change, you are STILL leaving crumbs all over the place hoping Dan will follow them home. And that is no problem at all IMO. But this last minute ditch efforts to use his guilt and achieve ...what? are meaningless. You still havent dropped the rope.
Wake up!! Last night it was proof how well he knows you, how well he manipulates you and how f@cked up he is. Listen girlfriend, time to open up your eyes and quit using excuses (the schedule, the weather etc etc). If you agree kids need to know, DO it. If not, fine, you are their mom and know best.
Dan is much worse than I ever thought possible because he is using your love for the kids as well, to serve his purposes which are only to avoid any kind of consequences NOT because he has serious second thoughts/feelings.
The man cheated over and over again, treated you like sh!t, has shown no consistency, no respect, no real caring for you. He is pathetic and such a looser.
What else do you need? This isnt HIM doing this to you or the kids, it is YOU allowing it to him. 100%. You deserve better, unless you tell me differently K (angry)
