Originally Posted By: Lanzo
Originally Posted By: Daddylongshanks
What the above statement translates to, is with some of our situations, they are unstable because our partner wants it unstable. In the case of boundaries, the boundaries are constantly broken because the other partner is breaking them with intent to do so. Its why it can be next to impossible.
Yes, I think this is very applicable to my case which is why I am no longer fighting it.

Originally Posted By: KerryK
Some day you may desire a new loving relationship with a woman who cares enough to work at making love thrive.
Maybe somtime in the future (if I don't get too old) but for now I'll concentrate on my health and the little princess.

Lanzo


Why wait? Life is too short. A lady who values you will boost your self-worth and improve your quality of life by a ton. Your going to do the same thing for her, thats the whole point.