(((H4L))) I'm sorry to read about the fight. This is a deeply entrenched pattern between you two and it's going to take time to overcome it. You're doing the best you can and every time you go down a road that you don't want to go down, you'll be more determined to care better care of yourself next time.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.