Newmama, I know this wasn't the outcome that you hoped for...and I know there must be a lot of grief around that. I'm glad that you're setting boundaries -- it's a good thing for you because it will help you to detach. I hope that your S adjusts easily to the new routine.
(((hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.