Ok I gotcha now.... Well you are right, I dont want an apology and then more of the same bad behavior, I will take no apology and consistent good actions and words any day. Which is what I am getting! However, conversation did come up last night with H and he apologized to me for everything, seemed genuinely remoreful, explained the situation with OW better and I felt soooooo much better afterwards... its just going so so well.
I hope I am not making this too easy on him, but I hate to deviate from how I am currently acting and do what some others have suggested, which is make him do the begging and pleading and all that... I dont want to do that... I dont think its the best thing for my situation. He is noticing my changes and it makes him want to be with me again. And I feel awesome! I feel so much relief, I am getting more and more happy every day... I hope that we tackled a serious rough patch early in our marriage and that will set us up for a wonderful marriage from here on out....
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Me: 25 H:25 M: 2yrs T: 4yrs No Kids Bomb: 11 Feb 10 Newcomers Story
However, conversation did come up last night with H and he apologized to me for everything, seemed genuinely remoreful, explained the situation with OW better and I felt soooooo much better afterwards... its just going so so well. 
