W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

I understood what you been saying, I was concerned that if I spoke out that she would have an adverse reaction and it would be a set back.

It was yesterday I believe where there was another instance where I spoke up....

She had just got out the shower walked into the bedroom with a towel wrapped around her. On her arm were scratches from our dog jumping up on her. I said "ohhh that looks bad" she looked down then shrugged her shoulders and said something a long the lines "she is a bad dog" a minute or so later I got up and started to walk out the room and see the scratch marks begin to bevel.

So I said "Are you OK? looks like it hurts" and she said in return "It's fine" in a low stern almost borderline b*tchy tone...So I nearly chuckled and said in a calm direct tone "I am only expressing my concern" and her tone change immediately and said "No, I was saying that it's fine, it doesn't hurt, is all."

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Another instance, I think it was yesterday again...My W was down stairs on the couch and someone was knocking at the door, My W did not answer, then there is another knock and still she doe snot answer the door. I march downstairs and headed for the door, as I walked past my W I looked at her as I opened the door (not a dirty look). Address the person at the door, when I walked back in she looked at me but I did not make eye contact with her, and I just walked right back up stairs...a few mins later she came up and let the dog in the room, the dog jumped up on me and she started to laugh, I smirked and then she said "what's wrong?" and I said "what do you mean" she replied "your acting weird" at the time I did not feel like I could had said anything constructive that could had possibly helped our sitch so I just let it go....