Pam, no i did not read these today. I thought that maybe you had said why you were backing off the bb in one of your posts.
You are a very strong person and you are being very patient and understanding. I don't think you could have done that without first loving yourself. My h has told me that he loves me unconditionally and that if i would be happier with someone else, then go. Not that he doesn't or wouldn't care. I don't know why i said that.
if he is still trying to decide, then there still is hope.
Got this from Opt and decided it was worth hanging onto.
This is your life. Even if you believe in reincarnation, it is the only life you can be completely sure of ever leading. Even if you have wonderful hopes and plans, this is the only moment you can be completely sure of experiencing.
If you're not happy with who you are or what you're going through, then the time to do something is surely now. What can you do? You can resolve not to compromise. You can also resolve to start the new year as you will need to go on... by treating each day as a precious gift.
You need to evaluate how secure your foundations really are. You're likely to find this an enlightening, even liberating exercise. You are in a remarkably stable point in your life, in part because you have such a strong constitution, and in part because you have come through so much that has challenged you deeply. These experiences have given you many reasons to feel confident.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
