Thank you guys for the advice I will be sure to follow it!!
Today he was awfully emotional and asked me if I was sure we were doing the right thing, and then when he got home he said are we ready to do this after giving me a hug and saying he missed me. I responded to him that yes I am ready to do this and that he would be ok and everything would turn out as is suppose to in the end.
Then about 30 mins later he informs me that his mom would be willing to pay for his mediation services and his friend would give him money for our roof, I said that sounds good.