Sorry, I am caving. He sent another text that he could not do it tonight, he needs me to come get them so he can settle down or his mom will come. I am not leaving the kids with him if he is that freaked out and I won't take a risk that he is faking or let MIL spin some story to them about how mommy made daddy sad....
So I am going to find my kids. I said I was on the way and he said they weren't at the house. so I don't know where I am going yet...