Pam, no i did not read these today. I thought that maybe you had said why you were backing off the bb in one of your posts.
You are a very strong person and you are being very patient and understanding. I don't think you could have done that without first loving yourself. My h has told me that he loves me unconditionally and that if i would be happier with someone else, then go. Not that he doesn't or wouldn't care. I don't know why i said that.
if he is still trying to decide, then there still is hope.
