Thanks - I needed reassurance that I did the right thing for the situation. So an update for today: H came to house while i was at work and took his clothes. Took enough to last awhile.
He texted today regarding passwords (we agreed not to change any passwords to joint accounts and lock the other person out). He has already locked me out of his email accounts (which I figured would happen). In our brief text exchange I said "I want you to know that everything I am doing is because I love you and I want to save our family." His response was "OK" and then "Love ya too." And that was the end of the convo.
I know it's early and I need to have some patience, but I'm finding it hard to know what to do with myself. I forget about everything for awhile while I'm working, but then when I set foot out of work, it all comes back and I can't concentrate on anything but this. Yuck.
