Kalni and SmileysPerson among others had a debate over this book several months ago. But I read much of it after my H bought it and then left it on a shelf. I agree with a lot of it. I want my man to be A man, strong, in control of himself, assertive. Call me old fashioned but I am attracted to a man who acts as the leader of the family. Not a dictator, but a strong, confident leader...