I rhink we are all hardheaded at first. We think we know our was and we feel guilty and hopeful and impatient thinking we can quickly fix our Ms. It takes time.
WAS are confusing and on the fence and they always think its too late for us to change but the majority of the time the LBS reallt truly doesn't have a clue to what is going on. They hold it inside and build resentment then explode and either physiscally mentally and emotionally check out on us or all 3.

Plus they don't see the other side and think that these things may be happening because of mistakes on both sides.

In the beginning its all about how they feel and if they never realize it takes two to make this work there may be little we can do until the fog lifts


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch