Mandy, I'm so sorry your son's father is acting like a spoiled rotten child. It's just plain awful the way he acts out w/him. You told your son the truth...his father is sulking. Let him. He's a grown man and should be very proud of his son.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
