Finally - a bit of time to decompress. The kids are with me for the next few nights but I tend to think better with them around anyway...
The more I think about this overnight guest provision, the more I think it should be a guideline for either W or me to follow rather than a dogmatic provision. I did get by the bank to get the few items that I had in the safe deposit box - my birth certificate, the savings bonds that my parents bought as birthday presents for the kids and an antique watch that belonged to my grandmother. Since neither of us had been in that box for years, I saw some pictures that W had put in there along with some notes that she wrote for D in case both of us died suddenly. Brought back a lot of fond memories and how I will always be thankful that W and I were able to bring two great kids into the world...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
