Thanks for the hugs NLT and CW! I sure needed them.
OK opening myself up for some possible 2x4's, but I thought I'd throw this out there. My H will have been gone 7 months on the 5th, of May. I have not pursued him after the first couple of months. (Found my footing and this site.) H has not contacted me in any form for 2 weeks now and I haven't contacted him either. On May 1st, it will be our 28th wedding anniversary. I was mulling over the idea of sending him a simple text saying something like, 'thinking of you'.
Please give me your thoughts and opinions on this.