Hey, I had a problem with not wanting sex but mine had to do with resentment issues. My H went from doing the whole foreplay, eroticism stuff to shooting the gun right at the target... that made me lose even more interest.

I would start by taking some of the other's suggestions. That is a great start. rubbing, kissing, holding, fondling. do things for her sexually, KWIM? get her hot and bothered.

I hope it works for you!

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson