Yeah, I too keep wondering if STBXW lied to me about her A last time (she claims it was a one time PA and she felt horribly about it) - it stil hurts when I think about it but there have been signs that it was more than that. However, whenever I asked if there was something else she denied it and used to say "I'm not thinking about that right now"
Some day I'll tell you guys about a story of a friend's friend and what his wife did to the poor guy! it's really really awful. THe gist of it is he was diagnosed with terminal cancer, he was given a year to survive. He sought treatment using his money he'd saved over the years. His wife told him that was a waste of money! he says 'hey I'm trying to save my life so I can be with my kids longer'. He flew out of state for an experimental treatment, she refused to go with him. When he got their he found out all his account were frozen and he was served. He was left with no money, no kids, no house, nothing
Unbelieveable how cruel people can be but how f'd up our legal system is
PS. What's a TM?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again