Interesting night last night. W sends me a txt that she needs to speak to me (FTR - I am still in the house but I was out running a few errands). I called her back and asked what she needed. She said that I need to speak to you in person. The jist of the conversation was regarding the kids. She now apparently wants to improve communication about them. I agreed and also indicated that given her changing work schedule and need to "work late" sometime that I am trying to be as fexiable as possible. We ended up having some R discussions, specifically re the D. My position was pretty clear and I thought dealt with very well. I suspect that the realty of all of this is starting to dawn on her. We both agreed that since we do not trust each other it is best to let the L's communicate. I committed to being fair and just in the process. I also explained that since she has decided to go the legal route that everything I do must be done with a legal impact thought process. The conversation was civil. FWIW - I was proud of myself... very proud. My emotions were in check.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
