What do you want more - do a 180 and make her feel sexy and desired or to take the chance that your marriage will fall apart and you'll be living alone? Do the 180. It must be hard to be shy about a very important need for men (sex). For women, I think, it is even harder to have a shy husband because men are expected to lead and women follow (more often) in this area.
Plan out the things you'd need to get her and you in the mood. If she rejects - who cares? You'll have really made a spark go off in her heart that says this SMM23 is a much cooler man than I thought. Just keep trying.
Any ideas? I will try to read the sex starved book, but I have never really done things to get her in the mood before. So maybe inadvertantly I have discovered a problem. It is easy to say lets go do it instead of working up to it. So being the loser that I am, any suggestions on things to do? I will not have time to get that book for a few days and then it will take a few more to read. Any suggestions would be helpful.
