8 weeks until D Day!!

[goldfiber]

I can't explain it Lea, I just know it, faith I guess is the correct answer. As bad as it may look, it's not over. I guess I must sound like one of those religious fanatics, I have just seen enough and know there is some explanation that brought us together. Just watch and see.

[lea74]

Hey G, was that you I found on FB?

[goldfiber]

sent you a friend request, doug j. Is that the one u responded to?

[lea74]

Hi G, I found a Doug J with no photo on facebook - is that you??? Do you know how I can see all the fans of divorce busting?

[goldfiber]

Try doug jester

[lea74]

Ok - found a few doug jesters? How about location now?

[lea74]

My heart is truly broken. My in-laws who are visiting have asked to see me. I feel so betrayed that they are staying at her house and that they didnt even bother to let me know that they were coming. I love my in-laws and have always considered them to be my parents, however their betrayal in some ways is worse then what my H has done. I now trully have lost my family.

I would love to see them but just dont see how at this time. I also now cant trust them as they have lied to me.

[goldfiber]

They know they are wrong, that's why they wanna see you. If you can stay in control, see them, but not at OW's place. Face them and let them see you are still standing and this hasn't defeated you.

[lea74]

I know that I should see them. They are not getting any younger and I dont want to do anything I will regret later. They are here for a couple of weeks now so I will see how I feel in a couple of weeks.

[lea74]

Hi G, how you doing? How are things going with you? Was that you I found on facebook??

So could do with your input. my H sent me an email asking me to switch a weekend with out boys. It suited me to change so was giong to reply with a yes, but took my time responding - a couple of days. At the same time he sent me another request asking that I see his parents. Again I waited a couple of days to respond saying I would consider it. In the meantime he emailed and asked why I was ignoring his emails and was there another form of communication I would like to use.

Also, got an email from him yesterday saying that he didnt think it was a good idea for me to let my sons watch Avatar - it has a age restriction of 12years. It is not the first time they have watched an age restricted movie, in fact he took them to see transformers at the cinema which has a 12 cert. I was always watch the movies with them to see if it is appropriate. Anyway the youngest go bored and let.

I also today got a text from the OW saying to leave her H alone. I contacted him via facebook about 3 weeks ago and he never responded so I just ignored it - why did it take her 3 weeks to text me. She knew about the email when it happened.

Lastly today I get an email from H saying not to belittle his family on facebook. I put on a posting on about 5 days ago that said I was really disappointed when family let you down. I never mentioned names or whose family it was.

So why all this hate mail all of a sudden. I dont get it - I didnt do anything wrong. I havent left my family and shacked up with a OW??????