Boundaries are a work in progress. Hard to do when she is dead set on D and is making plans in that direction. The 'open marriage' boundary is firm - she knows that it is me or the OM, and at present it is the OM near as I can tell. No PA involved, but the EA is definately starting up again.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012
