Few families I think DO explain how to deal with infidelity if you run into it, etiher as a LBS, a WS, OR as a third party...
Its just never spoken about... and its a damn SHAME
I am not sympathetic to the OP either... particularly for long term deals. I can understand how someone might be young and stupid and make that mistake once for 3 months or so.. but some of these affairs go on for YEARS... There's a VERY SICK PERSON at the end of that triangle to prey on a home for that long...
Its much like internet bullying, but to a marriage instead of its children... no idea why one gets attention and the other doens't.
