No prob, man - let me know if you have other questions.
It's funny the observations you make about yourself. I've been talking very little to W this week. I drop the kids off, and pick them up, and say very little.
At the same time, I'm noticing that I've got a lot more energy and am fired up regarding my job this week.
Just an observed correlation, but if you think about the emotional energy you put into things, where it goes, and how things REALLY affect you - I think I'm starting to put things into place.
TM mentioned to me the intentional nature of W's timing of asking for D - right after 10 year anniversery (which makes a difference in CA), and like 2 weeks after she had her tummy tuck (Oh! Joint debt, how about that). Kind of confirmed what I had thought, but W swore up and down that there was no correlation.
And I think again - oh yeah, she lied about seeing OM, right to my face, said "I would do nothing that's hurtful to you" WHILE SHE WAS ON THE ROAD TO SEE HIM. I'm a sucker for believing what STBXW says. Well, I was.
I didn't ask any more questions to TM, it honestly doesn't matter at this point, and I don't want to dwell in the drama. But I just suddenly realized - I really don't want to talk to STBXW now, really at all.
Well, she's still my ride on Friday for this medical procedure, but happily I'll be recovering from anesthesia for the ride home.
