You shouldn't make it so easy for her. She is the one doing this. She has issues that she needs to work on.

I know that she is using your kids as a crutch but you can't allow her to do so. You need to set boundaries. She can't have it both ways.

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson