Thank you so much for commenting on my sitch. Yes, you are right ... I'm no guru when it comes to finances. In fact, I'm pretty stupid when it comes to decent men as my sitch can attest to. I need major help setting up my finances, since I've been living off my credit card for almost two years now. The bank told me yesterday that my $22K limit has just been reduced to $17, which is what I own. Did you know they can lower your limit based on the "dept-to-income" ratio? So, now when I need it the most to pay for attys fees, it's gone. What to do, what to do?
Anyway, my atty called me today and said I now own $1,500 in my reserve because it's gone. She told me to sell his guns, which is what I plan to do today. She told me to bring the money to her office and that will show, all the more, that I am in serious financial straights.
His atty didn't even know what was on the table at mediation....huh???? How stupid can a person be? Or, is it a ploy? He's asking to sell the boats and trailors to help pay for fees, which we agreed to. (They are only worth a couple of K all together). His atty, asked my atty yesterday if I have starting working on my support rehab info (whatever that means) and my atty told her no. She said, (H's atty) that temp support offer is no longer on the table. It was just to offer if we got out of mediation. Now that we're going to trial, it's going to be for permanent support!!! As for the house: I'm not going anywhere. I have people telling me he's in for a big eye opener, and very soon!
