Thanks for your input. I'm tech savvy and agree with you that having one of her passwords would solve nothing. Many ways to conduct an affair through different methods.
I get flack from W for my FB female friends. Truth is, I would be happy to "unfriend" all of them if she did the same with her male friends. I agree with you that having FB friends of the opp. s*x could lead to trouble. Maybe childish on my part, but once she got on and friended dudes (no ex-BF's as far as I know) I had no problem accepting friend requests from females (no ex-girlfriends, mostly girls I knew from school). I KNOW that she won't drop her male FB friends. Should I still be the shining example and drop my female FB friends?
So what is the proper DB response when I'm getting grilled and accused of having an affair with my coworker (I'm not)? Denying it does nothing. Throwing accusations back surely won't help.
Still no response from the two msgs I sent to OMW through FB. I guess now I need to try to dig up her phone number through a pay site. Have to figure out how to pay with a credit card and not let W come across the bill.