Not much to report on my front. Our draft settlement agreement is out with our attorney's for their review and comments. My communication with the STBX is virtually non-existent, which for the most part is good for me.
My main concerns now are insuring she doesn't cause additional turmoil in the kids life and mine with her OM situation. I know you have experience with this.
I'm fascinated with what her mindset is. This need to fill the void of me being out of her life with OM seems to be her primary objective. Having a OW in my life is nowhere near my main concern. However, I do intend to get going on dating casually.
I need to get all the loose ends tied up (selling the house) etc. before I am going to be comfortable with any new relationship pursuits.
I've been having a great time with the kids when I have them and I am most happy when they are with me. My galing is strong on the weekends but weak during the week.
How are things for you?
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
