I was just thinking, someone should make a DB flowchart.
I think it would go something like this:

Spouse asks for divorce.
STEP 1: Is an affair involved?
no --> do 180's (no pursuing, GAL, etc.)
yes --> Ask spouse to commit to NC with the OP.

STEP 2: Do they agree to NC with the OP?
yes --> continue 180's (no pursuing, GAL, etc.)
no --> Ask spouse to leave.

STEP 3: Do they leave?
yes --> limit contact --> Then go to STEP 1.
no --> seek lawyer for rights about having spouse leave, have spouse leave, then go to STEP 1.

What do you think? Do I have this right?


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.