I was just thinking, someone should make a DB flowchart. I think it would go something like this:
Spouse asks for divorce. STEP 1: Is an affair involved? no --> do 180's (no pursuing, GAL, etc.) yes --> Ask spouse to commit to NC with the OP.
STEP 2: Do they agree to NC with the OP? yes --> continue 180's (no pursuing, GAL, etc.) no --> Ask spouse to leave.
STEP 3: Do they leave? yes --> limit contact --> Then go to STEP 1. no --> seek lawyer for rights about having spouse leave, have spouse leave, then go to STEP 1.
What do you think? Do I have this right?
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.