Yep, I am still here. Ahhhh my heart goes out to you. I hear your pain 100%. Your husband sounds like a classic MLC and as you know you can't do anything to change that.
I too have spent a couple of outings with my ex wife and our kids. I had the best time BUT was left completly empty and hurt afterwards.
About a month ago I stopped initiating contact with my ex.
I will tell you it has helped 100%. I don't obsess about her as much anymore. She does contact me every few days about the kids. Sometimes she tries to spark up conversation but I keep it professional just about the kids. This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. Of course I want to talk to her and spend time together BUT every time I go there it gets me nowhere. In fact it just brings more pain. So for me having no contact has really helped.
I feel exactly how you do about going out etc. I have 2 kids. Divorce is awfull.
Sorry for all the spelling issues. I am trying to post off my iPhone and it won't let me go back and correct anything. Arrrg
Hope this helped a bit up a conversation but I don't bite. I
Last edited by whitneypinch; 04/28/1004:36 PM.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
