H has continued to maintain contact. He seems off, but at least he is checking in on me. He texted yesterday to see how I was feeling and I asked him the same. He was saying how he's been working a lot of hours (16 hours on Monday!) and had another busy night ahead last night. He stopped by for an hour to see S yesterday at MIL's, but S was napping, so he didn't actually get to see him. When I'm driving home after picking up S last night, we pass by a truck that looks exactly like H's, and S starts saying "dad, dad". It's really weird to me how someone who is hardly in his life for no more than a few hours a week can still have such an impact on a kid. I guess you can't dispute the parent-child connection no matter how distant they are. I text H about that nicely (but more to just kind of jolt him about his R with S), but I don't hear anything back until later when he texts "busy!" (big NBA playoff game last night). I text back later that hope night is goinig good and good night. He texts back "FML. Good night". That bad, huh? He responds that the night is not horrible, but that he's just at his end in alot of ways. I let him know that I'm available he he wants to talk about it. His response "Thanks. We will talk soon". Hmm, I don't think that sounds especially positive but we'll see. Or whatever he's feeling could just all blow other and we'll never "talk about it". So not really sure where we are at or where we are going right now...
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
