My condolences on your uncle (haven't been on the boards in almost a week, I know they're belated). (((Mishka)))
It's not about him. It's about you.
He can do who he wants, what he wants. And so can you.
You don't have to confess every thought over the last month.
Just use "I think / I feel" statements. Keep it short and simple. And then give him time to process it and decide what he wants to do about the boundaries you are articulating.
It'll be easier than you fear.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
